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idreaminstereo · 2021-09-13T13:51:12+00:00

You should worry more about cleaning the room. There’s a chance she likes cartoons, there’s no chance she’s gonna like a messy room.

Cappy6400 · 2021-09-13T09:19:24+00:00

Make your bed. Clean your room. Aspie 27 F. Cleaning your room shows maturity and respect for your belongings. The sheets are just sheets. If she likes you, she wont care what kind they are. But seriously, clean your room.

maypooletree · 2021-09-13T13:09:41+00:00

The print on the sheets literally wouldn't bother me in the slightest, but, and I say this as a friend, I can smell your room from here.

Centimal · 2021-09-13T09:29:43+00:00

I agree with everyone else - id think the sheets are cool but id be put off by the mess

sagegreenpaint78 · 2021-09-13T23:23:17+00:00

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2021-09-13T13:28:20+00:00

I’d be more concerned of the state of the room. Needs to be cleaned up pronto.

TheStumblingWolf · 2021-09-13T10:20:53+00:00

Yikes..sorry but we assume things based on the appearance of other things. People assume I have my shit together (I don't) because I dress nice. The same way, I think she's gonna assume your head is an absolute mess. Me personally, I almost said "yikes" out loud when I saw it. Sorry not sorry.

2021-09-13T11:41:18+00:00

Gotta tidy up the side of the bed dog, just like everyone else is saying. You can do this though!

2021-09-13T13:03:34+00:00

This is NOT decorated 😂😂😂

Floranagirl · 2021-09-13T14:40:01+00:00

The bedding is fine. The mess is off-putting, and I say this as a messy person. If this were my room and I was trying to clean up for company I'd at least put the shelves against the wall. having them in the middle of the floor blocking access to the bed is what makes it look so haphazard. As it is, this bedroom looks like it belongs to a teenager who's mom has decided to stop cleaning his room for him. (Or a college student who's never been on his own before)

If you ever are in the situation where someone asks to come to your place and your room looks like this, you can park her in the living room and hand her a drink/snack/etc, then ask her to give you a minute to 'prepare' your room, then go throw everything in the closet. (Otherwise, just try to keep your room clean all the time)

sQueezedhe · 2021-09-13T19:00:20+00:00

That's not a bedroom: it's a depression nest.

Paltry_Poetaster · 2021-09-13T13:49:11+00:00

The design - O.K.

The mess - not O.K.

Honestly that room looks like a sty

I would not show it to anyone. If it is just going to remain a little secret, O.K. but don't ever let someone see it.

2021-09-13T14:12:53+00:00

Clean please! If she likes you enough, cartoons won't matter more than a head tilt of curiosity. My boyfriend's pillow cases are toy story and shin Chan, from when he was a kid. ND, but ADHD.

if she let's you bring her home, she likes you enough to overlook a few oddities

2021-09-13T14:58:46+00:00

I agree about the mess. You may also consider adding some night tables and curtains. Maybe a bedframe if you can afford it.

filthworld · 2021-09-13T16:25:47+00:00

Dude...😥

2021-09-13T14:50:28+00:00

Bedding isn’t the issue the room is. I’d try and tidy it up before letting her over and if this was me I’d make the bed.

suspecrobot · 2021-09-13T16:15:14+00:00

Eeeeeew, bedding needs a wash by the looks of it! Do you have a spare set? If so keep a clean one in reserve for when you ask a girl over. Plain sets are best.

And tidy your room, even if you just shove everything under the bed.

2021-09-13T14:41:53+00:00

Well, I don't think being aspie has anything to do with it. Women are all different, someone who has a more playful disposition might find it fun. If she knows you well and already likes you she'll be more tolerant even if she doesn't particularly appreciate it. Or just like, not surprised/at all bothered.

My personal response as a woman in her thirties - it is not sexy or romantic, so if you were hoping for a sexual encounter I would put something more plain/mature on the bed, at least the first few times. Oh, and like everyone else here I think the mess is awful and needs fixing. Other people's mess is pretty gross and it's just immature.

JustAnotherNumber99 · 2021-09-13T15:10:43+00:00

As a girl, I’d run. Seriously, who wants to hang in a pigsty?

Wouldn’t you be embarrassed to let someone you know irl see that room?

Usual-Ad-4990 · 2021-09-13T18:45:46+00:00

Everything about this room has to change. Make it look more like an adults room and you'll be alright.

2021-09-14T01:55:56+00:00

My bf's apartment looked even worse when I met him. Wasn't a deal breaker for me, messy places can always be cleaned up was what I thought. Now after many many years he's still messy (he has adhd and keeping things in order is sometimes difficult for him) but it's not an issue because I like him for other reasons more. We all have our strengths and weaknesses.

SeanGlobal · 2021-09-13T14:45:34+00:00

This looks like a child’s room. Idk

2021-09-13T18:28:23+00:00

Take some time to make your room beautiful by your own standards my man. Paint the walls, buy a book shelf, hang a painting, organize your things. That can go a long way with ladies, but also with your own mental wellbeing.

manooko · 2021-09-13T19:50:57+00:00

I asked my fiance what her opinion on the matter is. Firstly she said the room is a mess and that would give her anxiety. But if we are talking purely about the bedding, she wouldn't care.

MexicanLenin · 2021-09-13T21:32:43+00:00

The place is messy, but I had a relationship even when I had a similarly messy place and slept on a mattress on the floor. I had a ghetto swap meet blanket, with a whale on it. But it definitely helps to clean. You can give yourself dignity even if you are poor.

quantumbowelsyndrome · 2021-09-13T12:54:29+00:00

If he has pink hair and resembles one of those troll dolls from the 80s, she most likely was attracted to that kind of stuff and won't mind.

But in reality, get some plaid and a good clean.

BadnewzSHO · 2021-09-13T15:58:32+00:00

I wouldn't worry about it. My room was a hundred times worse. A real pigsty. I had tons of girls over and not one ever ran screaming. If a girl likes you, she is not going to immediately dump you over the mess, or your choice in bedding.

Granted, it needs to be cleaned for your own peace of mind. You will feel better and more accomplished when you make the effort to keep your space clean and organized. Trust me on this. Like I said, my room was way worse, but I cleaned it up and it made me much happier.

Oh, and the bedding choice if fine. Just make the bed. Maybe put up some posters that speak to you. Decorate a bit and make the space your own.

Koomaster · 2021-09-13T14:18:39+00:00

This whole room; including the sheets, is bad.

What would she say? If you’ve been dating a bit and she loves you she’ll probably not make a big deal out of things.

But show some respect for yourself and her by trying a bit better.

proncesshambarghers · 2021-09-13T17:41:41+00:00

Looks cute and your bed sheets look washed that’s a huge step as someone that’s dated a few people on the spectrum

torturedgenius271 · 2021-09-13T17:54:18+00:00

A girl once had urine off next to the bed which isn’t the best. On the sheet front don’t think it matters

Incidentally why do you ask? Are you trying to convince someone that they are single cos of there sheets cos that’s just ridiculous and weird why do you care?

random-tree-42 · 2021-09-13T20:49:24+00:00

Ooooo

A guy who would tolerate my messy routines

I would want him to clean up the place, though

A hint too messy

mama146 · 2021-09-13T20:55:19+00:00

Get some real shelving. I wouldnt walk into that room. It looks messy and unsanitary. Clean up!

kblaino_art · 2021-09-14T00:31:16+00:00

The design is fine. Own your personality - the messy and general lack of decorum in the room on the other hand is lacking and may turn off potential (longterm) guests.

overthehill333 · 2021-09-14T00:40:25+00:00

eeuw, screams teenage boy/slob, do a major tidy at least. Get a nice sheet/pillow case set...like plain colour, cotton rich, dark blue, maybe, Target often have nice stuff that isn't costly. It will look more adult. Get some nicer storage than that plastic thing. possibly with drawers or doors, so the clutter is not on display.

OxenFreeOlly · 2021-09-14T01:52:33+00:00

Do not hide… great way to find out if she’s simpatico 😉

MissionIssue2062 · 2021-09-14T02:10:41+00:00

Personally I wouldn't even care. Idek what that is, kinda looks like Digimon but also princess themed? I got no clue. Regardless, I wouldn't care, I got Mario Odessey Bedding, as long as the shit is comfortable.

Room should be cleaned though, she'll likely care more on the mess than the bedding. No one wants to come into a room and see left over food and such. I'm a messy person too, but if I have guests over I make sure my rooms clean enough you can eat off the floor

whatalongusername · 2021-09-14T02:58:26+00:00

Try to keep your room a bit more organised. It is okay not to make your bed every day. But if you are expecting company you have to make some effort for the room to be presentable.

divergedinayellowwd · 2021-09-14T04:40:17+00:00

Wait a minute. Aspie guys get women into their bedrooms?!? What sorcery is this??

CatsEatHamburgers · 2021-09-14T05:58:35+00:00

I think the bedsheet is pretty awesome tbh. I dont think it Will cause any issues?

There is however a thing here that might cause issues.

Seriously clean up around the bed. Especially on the floor there. The room is a mess, that's whats going to chase the girl away. Not the bed sheet. Clean it!

Also theres this cream with toilet paper next to it and a magazine on the shelf. Dont put those things together or people draw conclusions.

Interesting-Mouse120 · 2021-09-14T10:53:01+00:00

Tbh I'd think that's cool

2021-09-14T11:11:55+00:00

Bedding isn’t the problem, it’s how gross the rest of the room is. I would assume he never cleans his sheets

BIG YES BOMB!!!!!

Monday, September 13, 2021

If a girlfriend asked this guy to take her to his place and she checked out his bedroom and saw this design of bedding, how will she react? If you were the gal visiting him and saw this, what would you say / do? Oh, and the guy who this bedroom belongs to was diagnosed with Asperger's as a preteen.

If a girlfriend asked this guy to take her to his place and she checked out his bedroom and saw this design of bedding, how will she react? If you were the gal visiting him and saw this, what would you say / do? Oh, and the guy who this bedroom belongs to was diagnosed with Asperger's as a preteen.

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